Monday, December 13, 2010

Punishment

Own parents were taught that, when we have a bad behavior the have punish us to know that this attitude is not the best, it is wrong. Some parents have different ways to discipline their children, some ignore the situation, others solve the problem with conditions with their children, others spank but others get so angry and abuse of them.
They problem is that some of the parents imagine or think that discipline is the same of abuse, not in this word, but they do it. Sometimes they can’t control their feelings and more if they have a lot of rules to treat children. The violence is not allowed, least in children, but now there are a lot of parents that don´t know how to discipline theirs children and commit imprudence.
The only way to be right is to teach children the consequences that they have if they don´t have a good behavior, and then if they don´t listen make some rules that they can do and learn too of these ones. It is a mistake when the parents lose the control of their attitude because their children see this and later they won´t respect the rules.
The parents need to be more intelligent and know it is better to prepare them and teach them the responsibility to obey, because if the parents want transfer it of the best way, children understand that, their attitudes are incorrect. So I think, parents shouldn’t ignore the situation, never, and punish or teach children when is necessary.

Thursday, December 9, 2010

Marriage


Nowadays, nobody wants to take a compromise. At least the young people think that they can try with the others, and if they do not like, they not assume the responsibility of having a compromise. For example, they looked for someone and if they don´t like, they seek other person. That is the reason marriages nowadays do not work and later, they get divorced.
In my opinion, the people need to take a good decision and they think what they are going to get, because the problem is that, when they take the decision and they don´t think before, later everything is broken.
Most of the people that get married nowadays are young people, and they want to enjoy a lot, but they don´t think about the future; they just want to be single, enjoy different moments with someone but without taking a compromise because they know is an a responsability that maybe they can´t arrive.
I know is pleasure to be single and live the life without any responsabilities but my advice is to enjoy every stage of the life and then, when we feel sure, take the best decision without pressure.

Simple Life



Most of the people think that the simple life is for poor people, but it is not true. Well, in some cases, because the simple life is just living without any profit or everything relate with money.
There are people that enjoy the life and the pleasure that the life gives, like share with the family: cooking, play with children or others household chores and also share with the animals that they have (dogs, cats, birds) or farm animals like cows, chickens, calves, horses, etc. And not only with the family, with the friends too, laughing, talking and belong to a religious group which where they talk of God and the blessings that he gives.
Them don´t worried about anything, they know that every sunrise they wake up and do the things with peace without any stress or pressure … At least that's what I think it is to live a simple life and if it is like this I would like to live a simple life, because all the time we have a lot of pressures and toils and in this lifestyle we lost the value of life, we worried about everything relate with material or future, but there are things more important than the material, there is the love, hope and the will to live.

Storytelling


If you tell a story, it is necessary to use your imagination and be creative, depending of the story, to capture the attention. You have to be clear so that the people understand the way that you want them to get the idea be transferred. For example, if you are going to tell a scary story, you have to do some sounds and change your voice all the time, so that the listener will be afraid and sometimes to talk faster and others slowly.

Another example is the stories of adventure; in my opinion, this stories are the best, I like these because you can imagine everything they talk, and you may feel different emotions. So definitely tell a story is an art and people who do this, always cause an effects in the other who are listening and achieving to create great ideas and a more developed mind, this is the reason why the stories are good for the children but also there is not doubt that we like too.